Love shared

As Sara and Scott, mother and son, we have experienced many lifetimes before…and now again this time. I am filled with gratitude…even though I went through hell when he left…

Because…what he has taught me…has changed me forever. It is beyond extraordinary.

Scott/Spirit/Your children/Loved one are here to share… I’m so happy for you to see more too…

Seeing more in the everyday is a beautiful aspect of every day. When you are in a state of confusion or pain and asking, “Why is this happening??” Look for the meaning

When life is good…and you are happy, is there a deep, deep need to ask…”Why? Why am I so happy, or so lucky to be alive?”

Think about it…

When grief or life has rocked your world, opened you up to emotions and experiences you never thought possible…is there a demanding voice within or anger that pushes, or fear that holds you back? Is this when you ask “WHY?”

We will explain how life is meant to be experiential. Why it is soul planned to be experienced and felt. How the doors to love and creativity are opened up more broadly and boldly in the wake of trauma and pain.

Are you seeing love in new ways?  Does it feel more than ever…the depth, the missing, the courage, the need to connect with others, to create and share? To give up and yet…you cannot?

This life experience you are living is what you designed (soul planned) with all those you love and care for, those who teach you through challenges, anger and pain, those who inspire and provide hope…to prepare you for the growth that will ultimately take place day to day, year to year…in this lifetime.

Upon returning to Spirit…there will be no doubt you completed everything on your soul planned human experience.

From the most loved baby, who came to this world, to leave before or after birth, a completed lifetime…to the 101 year old man or woman who is ready to leave this earth after a beautiful or challenging lifetime…their soul plans carried them from birth to death/passing/leaving/their rebirth into Spirit.

This way of looking at life may be all new for you. We know this. It is good you are here…searching for what resonates, helps, informs, teaches…clarifies.

There are many ways to look at life and death. We bring you our words to add to your view of it all. You need perspectives. One perspective is not enough to answer all the questions…in finding the truth you will carry within.

Allowing these words, coming through Sara to be another voice on your journey, can benefit you…

You are learning.  You are thinking more deeply.  You cannot go back to the life you knew before, because your soul plan is pushing you in new directions, as planned.  The courage you feel or do not today…comes from that deep space within you…your soul. It does not rest…and must show you more.

To value this journey, with hope or determination…or the need to ease your pain…brings you these words.

You are spiritual beings having spiritual experiences in your human body.

As your children, your loved ones in Spirit, we see this moment as a spiritual experience to be shared… We see the sprinkles on our birthday cakes, the candles you light, the hearts everywhere, the balloons moving through the skies…your tears, your fears. Yes. This is our journey together.

Take each day to bring us in…to your heart…your life.  Our lives are so intertwined we cannot be separated…so let’s come closer…knowing we will be together, now and forever more

…and so it is.

Love always…

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  • Jamie
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    Thank you. xoxo

    • Sara Ruble
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      I know every word comes from Spirit Jami…and I am grateful too. xoxox

  • Janice
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    Thank you Sara. Such a beautiful message. ❤️

    • Sara Ruble
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      When we write these blogs and the words flow through I am listening and taking it all in too Janice. It is extraordinary to have these perspectives as we try to grasp the meaning of life and death and everything that comes… Hugs! xoxo

  • Carolyn tuccio
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    I do believe everything spirit is saying but right now I feel empty inside with no motivation to move forward. I know that I have to but I cannot focus to feel like I did before. How do I move from where I am now. I feel I have come so far on this journey and want to move on for there is so much more I need to learn and teach my family. I know for the greater good that I have to keep pushing myself. My grandson is the force that moves me and my love for him strengthens me. Much love

    • Sara Ruble
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      My friend Carolyn, you have been working on your grief and learning as long as I’ve known you… This is a path, a process, and learning that is not always on our shoulders. Spirit has their part too…and when they know we need to take a rest, appreciate, or ponder what we’re learning, we get to this place where you’ve expressed. I’ve been there more times than I can remember! As a mom or dad here, trust me…our needs drive us. They are sometimes more powerful than we can handle… Take a break. Do something you love to do…or like or just want to try. You are never alone in those moments either! It’s a journey of the heart. It’s all so new. Breathe… You are loved. xoxo

  • Char Gilman
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    This is Beautiful. I have read it and reread it a number of times.This time when I read it I could hear Howard saying some of these words to me..This made me feel loved.. Thank you Scott/Sara and Howard…

    • Sara Ruble
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      Opening up, as we all are doing to what life is now…we need perspectives, insights, and a willingness to try something new. With this blog, the words are becoming more spiritually open to us. Each time we write someone will see or feel something new or different… many will…or may not. Allow that to be…our children and loved ones are working with us…even if you cannot hear them… Their silence will speak volumes too. For you Char…thank you for sharing. You bring hope with what you felt today! xoxo

  • Brian
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    Holding on to this hope.

    • Sara Ruble
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      That is what we must do Brian… Holding onto hope shows us we know more within…the pieces and parts we so need do show up when it is time. With the soul plans…we cannot rush the process…but it is in that needed time we see more, open up to the new…and begin to feel more grounded. The soul plan at work, our children showing us the way… Trust, my friend. xoxoxo

  • Sherry
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    Tears..but inspiring 😇❤️

    • Sara Ruble
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      Your three words are so powerful Sherry. This is what this journey creates…and truly tears and inspiring are a perfect description for so many… I love that you are here… We will bring you more inspiration. I promise. xoxo

  • Deborah Young
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    Dear Sara and Scott for your Spirit Teaches blog…
    Reading each new post brings comfort and acknowledgement that I’m on the right path through this earth school journey! I hear my precious sons, Gary and Tony, speaking to me through your words and, Feel SO thankful that they sent me to your amazing Death Teaches Blog! The doors to love and creativity are opening quickly within my Soulful heART Studio & Gallery as more people are learning about me and what I offer to the community. Opportunities to offer the healing power of Expressive Arts and intuitive painting to process emotions is helping my dream come true… by offering classes, workshops and retreats to individuals who have experienced loss. I know that me being here in this place is definitely the most important part of my SOUL PLAN!

    • Sara Ruble
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      Thank you for sharing your inspiring words with us Deborah! I love that you know and understand your soul plan has opened you up to this new aspect of who you are, with your abilities flowing through to help others. It’s so empowering to see the different sides of grief shine through as we grow and expand. And what is absolutely thrilling and real is your boys are right there with you! I googled your site and it is so uplifting and important for the grief community. Again, thank you for sharing! xoxo

  • Lisette Evans
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    This is beautiful and well needed..Day by day I am getting stronger still lows and highs.. But searching for peace and really trying to find me on this journey… Thank you Sarah 💙

    • Sara Ruble
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      I’ve learned we must take one day at a time Lisette. It really is the best way to allow the unknowns to emerge and then see what is shown to us that can help us to see more. It may not be as immediate as we feel we need…but the answers and clarity do come! I’m so glad you found us here.
      xoxo

  • Jane Poitras Manchester
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    Had to tell, I am reading on my phone so have to keep my finger on screen so it doesn’t go to black. As I am reading, a section highlighted before I read it “intertwined we cannot be separated”! And I tried to copy just that section again and it won’t work for me. Just keeps only highlighting one word at a time. Beautiful communication from my girl!

    Jane-Rhiannon’smom

    • Sara Ruble
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      That is truly exciting Jane! This is what Spirit wants us to understand…our children are present, with us…as we read these words. They know our journey, they push in the directions we need to go for lessons, awareness, growth…more. And then we trust, seeing more than we ever could have before. Don’t we love the validation? Thank you sharing! Nice work Rhiannon! xoxo

  • Patricia McHenry
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    Such beautiful words. Such a bittersweet path that we are on. I cry for the physical bond I shared with my daughter but she lets me know completely that she lives within me. I don’t know how I can cope at times and than she reminds me of the infinite love we share. Who would have known two years ago I would be leaving such a comment. Our love keeps getting bigger and bigger. Thank you for the reminder Sara. I hope to meet you at the HPH conference. ❤️

    • Sara Ruble
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      Your’s are beautiful words too Patricia… What you are learning, what your daughter is showing and teaching you… It is the journey of love that we could never have imagined…and yet we are still with one another, working together…a love bond that is immensely strong. It is bittersweet…and grows to be even sweeter…give her time to reassure you of that. xoxo

  • Mabel
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    Thank you, Sara and Scott.

    I believe, trust and allow…..the process.

    • Sara Ruble
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      Yes Mabel… You see the path. It takes us time to get there it seems…and yet all along we have been working towards the allowing piece… I love how you brought these words together… Thank you for sharing them too… xoxo

  • Cindy Magee
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    Sara,

    The words I read confirm what I know in my heart.. I am supposed to move forward. I am meant to share my journey, hold the flashlight and guide those who follow behind me. I don’t exactly know where I am going but I will push through the brush and thorns to lead the way.

    Your words are inspiring.

    Much love,

    Cindy Magee

    • Sara Ruble
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      After reading your heartfelt and poignant words Cindy…I know there are many who would love a hug from you! This journey opens us up like nothing else ever could…and what we see emerge from within can be startling beautiful in so many ways. Growth must come too…and when we are aware of the beauty as well as the pain…we are shifting and growing…as we begin to feel a greater sense of balance… Thank you Cindy! xoxo

  • Heidi Hanson
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    Wonderful Scott and Sara…I knew these words to be true soon after Grace’s accident. I knew it was not an “accident”…there was to much Love to just be gone. I know there is Purpose to Grace’s passing at age 14 and I know my Purpose is Connected to Hers…I Believe all of Our Purposes are really One Purpose…but we do need to Show Up! Love you Both so so much and all of our Children! xoxo

    • Sara Ruble
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      So well said Heidi…Yes, yes. Purpose is such a large part to this journey and our healing. I love how you have been able to piece this together…with Grace and her help! When we have new perspectives that are bigger than ever before, more inclusive than not, we see so much more. Thank you for sharing what you are now living my friend…and you do show up…share…and teach with your beautiful heart. xoxo

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