A note from our children and loved ones
From Spirit ~
As we continuously bring greater awareness to your path…we must share more details about the soul planning from our knowing perspective.
It is time…as so many of you are ready…or getting ready…to see more.
Your questions need answered…and this blog that Sara and Scott, her own beloved son in Spirit created, was truly designed by Spirit to reveal more, open up the awareness and lessen your feelings of separateness and confusion…by bringing greater knowing to your heart and soul.
This is a blog about Love…channeled through Sara
Yes.
Here are some facts:
This deep love you feel ~ is the unconditional love given, shared, cherished, unable to be broken, with untold, incalculable hours, days, years devoted to nurturing and caring for…
This love is not like any other love ever experienced, felt, or needed. It is ours!
It is the love we soul planned before birth, to bring to earth and experience life together. This love cannot be duplicated, because as spiritual beings (in our human bodies) we are all very unique.
Unique in that our past lives enter into this lifetime of experiences…and the future has also been planned to continue evolving our souls…
Spirit has been doing this evolving of souls since the beginning of time.
You are courageous souls planning these lifetimes with us…knowing there would be days filled with joy…as well as imaginable pain.
All planning is done in Spirit’s unconditional love…with the certainty of growth, awareness, collaboration, and reconnection.
Knowing life and death are the eternal life cycles of every human experience…and always determined by the needs of each other, we knew before we entered our bodies at birth that we would be reunited in Spirit at the time of your death/transition/rebirth (whatever terminology resonates with you).
When our spirit left our human body and transitioned into Spirit, the cycle once again was moving us into our next place…of this new relationship…for your learning, seeing more than ever before, growing…through the connections and bonds we create together.
We are by your side, literally within every aspect of this journey… Your creative mind, your need to help others, your podcast, blog, or book, your laughter, your tears, your fears, your challenges, your triumphs… We are working with you…often unseen…and yet very present. Can you trust this…even if you don’t see or feel it fully yet?
We planned this journey together…this incredible, profound journey that we need, that is for others too…and yes, always for the greater good…somehow, someway…for the greater good of all.
Love is courageous. You are courageous. Trust the journey we planned together…and know the many questions and thoughts swirling around in your head are meant to be there…
More insights coming next week…and beyond.
There’s so much yet to share!
All our Love… Always!
xoxo
So very true, yet so very hard while we’re still in this form.
Yes, Brian… I know this too. I’ve learned though, the more aware we become, the more our spirit works with us to connect the dots. The bigger picture becomes more clear and we find a seemingly unattainable peace evolves. Trusting the journey… xoxo
I really resonate with “for the greater good.” My daughter’s passing has enhanced the greater good (from medical and awareness perspective), but that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
Every aspect of my being has become more peaceful SINCE her passing (although it took a couple of years before I could even begin to imagine or start to say or think that). And I thought I had had a blessed life and was plugging along doing as much good in the world prior to her passing.
I wouldn’t want to go back to the person I was 3.5 years ago. The worried, anxious, always needing to stay on top of everything, etc. person. I feel such deeper joy and peace now. It is strange and absolutely blows me away.
While in Costa Rica last weekend visiting my 24 yo son who lives there I had a series of mind blowing synchronicities and periods of such peace….WITH MY SON, with whom I have had a strained relationship since he was about 17.
Anyway, it would all take a novel to describe.
Mainly I just wanted to say thank you, Sara, for what you are doing and for the affirmations I felt while reading this post.
With love.
I understand what you write about and deeply feel Tava…as I’m sure so many of us on this journey do or are seeking to. Knowing there is meaning, powerful meaning, in every experience we must go through has helped me tremendously to stop, take a moment to find some balance (if I can), and breathe in these words, “This has meaning. What am I being shown, taught, or forced to look at?” It takes time and practice to get used to doing this. I may not get an answer immediately or even in the next week…but I now know, know, know there is meaning there and I hang onto that…knowing it will be revealed in Spirit’s perfect timing.
I’m so happy for you and the synchronicities that occurred when you were with your son….showing you, you are not alone as you do this necessary soul planned work with him.
Thank you for sharing Tava…stay the journey my friend…it will show you so much more. xoxo
There really is so much ongoing communication if you pay attention, participate and nurture it 💛
You are so right Terry… It is a process of our seeing the signs, grasping the meaning in butterflies, dreams, numbers, and all the ways our children and loved ones nudge us (or hit us over the head!) to discover…this IS the communication I have so desired and needed! Until we are in that place of grief and love coming together to show us more, we are in a state of unawareness…as we are meant to be…so the clues to our new relationship can be revealed.
Then…we see it. So yes, paying attention, nurturing, participating, breathing in gratitude opens us up to the incredible magic of the love we’ve known and cherished…then deepening that love…on a spiritual level we could not have ever known before. Thank you for your insights! xoxo
I’m trying so hard to believe all this, to really believe I’ll see my sons again. That is the sole reason I am enduring g this life. It’s the missing them, their physical presence that most days feels like it’s going kill me. I don’t feel I am growing,, nor do I feel like I am learning anything from the deaths of my boys. I’m trying, I’m trying to be open to all things. But it is proving to be a hard , a very hard road to go down.
Dear Litzi,
Yes, this is a hard, hard road to go down. We are all finding our way as best we can…and doing it together is so beneficial. I’m glad you found our blog, because understanding the soul planning is a powerful aspect in understanding our connection with our children…as well as bringing greater meaning to the pain…and the profound new spiritual relationships we seek. One day at a time seems trite perhaps, but it is just that. Grief demands our time…and your being here, sharing, expressing and learning is an important part of your healing journey. I’m sure your boys would agree…the more you know, Mom… the more you know. We are right by your side. Love to you… xoxo
Thank you Sara. This knowledge, which on some days is easy to forget –
has gotten me through the toughest of days.
Coincidentally, it is the basis for a poem I wrote before bed last night, to a friend who has an autistic son and is about to have another baby.
She is very afraid, consumed with doubt.
Thank you for the reminder.
I love knowing we were linked up last night to help inspire encouraging words to your friend Deanna. Your love is so caring…
As we trust this journey to bring us what we need, we are shown more… Love to you my friend. xoxo
Trust , a concept that is difficult, after I have been broken. I trusted my son would be protected. We are good and caring and boom!
so its a hard concept to trust anything, yet I have a choice to let it happen , with participating as much as I am able. OR to try to fight it, too tired, the reality is my only child and son is not physically here, never will be. That is a tough concept for a mother, parent. Why fight it ? No point.
Then you can close up and shrivel, protection from another else. Angry whatever. I can see that , no judgement . I am not there, anger was not there much.
sadness, despair, now longing.
Things, hawk, signs , etc over and over. paid attention and sought out others who could guide me through this horror. And they came, through whatever means, and have helped me open to the spirit way., not gone, guidance.
That is how I found you.
Thank you for helping me through this painful journey. I am grateful for those who share their pain, love and their gifts.
Dear Roselyn,
So much you share here. Yes, there is so much to grasp…and then trust again too? I understand. You will…you are… My only child too…and I felt so much like you. Our children are prepared to help us, show us more, teach us through the soul plans we created together. It may seem far fetched…but I’ve experienced Scott, so unexpectedly through those incredible hawks and other ways, showing me I can trust. I see you are processing all this as you write, which is so beautiful, helpful, and needed. You are learning and evolving in ways you may not see clearly yet…but you will…..your heart is in it…..Love drives us Roselyn. My love to you. xoxo
My Son passed by suicide last year. The missing, longing and regret can eat you alive if you let it. It overcomes me like a mugger sometimes. Hits me when I least expect it. Knowing that life does go on and he is still with me in just a different way is crucial to my survival. I have seen many amazing signs, too. Thank God for them. I don’t think I could make it without them. I saw a Hawk fly right over my head the second I yelled at God that I wanted one to show he is OK and with him. Somedays the signs and knowing are not enough to keep every cell in my body crying out and longing for his physical self. 😇❤️
There is so much Debbie, to try and make sense of when you are in great pain. And that is why we write this blog…because I suffered, because everyone who writes here is like you and me in many ways. We need answers. And yes, we deeply miss them.
The soul planning provides one major word. Meaning. Every experience we planned for this lifetime has meaning. Whether we can see or feel it, it is there. The spiritual path we knew when we planned this life with our children and loved ones was to be shown to us when we entered our bodies. When you saw the hawk and as other signs come…the reality of our continuing relationships is shown to us. We cannot change the course of life, but we do grow into the awareness of our soul’s important work. Thank you for sharing… Love, love. xoxo
I agree with Brian, I totally believe, but it has been hard still having this human body, but I agree with you, that the more I am learning the more aware I am becoming. I so want to have ALL the dots connected!!! Still working on that patience thing……I believe that the bigger picture is coming more into view….I get snippets here and there (memories from before? I’m not sure where they come from, but have always had this happen, just never paid as much attention before Howard passed) I am totally trusting in our journey…And of course trusting in Love!
Thank you Scott in Spirit, Sara, Howard, and Spirit for bringing this lesson to us….Looking forward to more!!
Much Love,
Char
Every step you/we take Char is taking us to greater awareness and clarity. This is your unique soul plan showing you the steps…and as it is unfolding, the “memories” are there to make you wonder and dig deeper into what the meaning is of your challenges, messages, anything that presents itself to you. I love that you embrace it all… xoxo
Unconditional love I have always had, but unconditional trust is something I am learning about. Graditudr was not something I thought I’d ever have again, but I see it now. My soul planned journey is unraveling before my very eyes and it is this belief that has slowly brought me this far. I know my path will be shown to me exactly when it is supposed to in divine time and for the greater good of all. Thanks again Sara/Scott/spirit. Much love
My dear friend Carolyn, you just opened me up to the term “unconditional trust”. Thank you for this! It fits so well into our letting go of that which can hold us back. We may be fearful of giving up control or taking in different ways of looking at life, death, our journey, the afterlife and more. What do we do with unconditional trust? When we know our children, your grandson Matthew, Spirit are guiding us, knowing our path, can we give it up to them? We need to look at this… I see a blog coming with this title Carolyn! xoxo
What I love about your blog is the way Spirit seems to be speaking directly to me. ” . . . the many thoughts and questions swirling through your head . . . ” This was my experience this week. The questions move me forward to answers, insights and more questions. And then as I read the comments, I see how deeply others have been touched, spoken directly to. I absorb and learn through the connections others have made. There are deep heart connections guided by Spirit here, with people I have never met yet the heart processes as a result and not the mind. Leading with the heart ushers in trust, hope and healing. Unseen before seen but felt by the heart before thought of by the mind. This is my path and I have a knowing it us true.
I always love reading your perspective Diane. Your beautiful words, “Leading with the heart ushers in trust, hope, and healing.” brings forth this thought ~ Knowing we truly are heart-based as Spirit…teaches us that these incredible experiences we are grasping, one word at a time sometimes, are pushing us to see love can be our first response. It may take time to begin to see this and absorb the depth of your statement, but it is here to use, to see, to feel. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt words and giving us all this gift…as you discover, with the richness you know… your heart is guiding you. xoxo
I have been trying to understand the soul planning and free will working together…. Does that mean my son knew/chose to be a drug addict,? I can understand there would be many lessons learned here, but why not chose sobriety at some point ( through the many times of getting clean?) I am desperately trying to accept and process this. The countless number of people who have died and the families who are left behind , still so many others continue suffering with no solutions. They say nothing happens by accident, How can I make sense of something that not only took my son , but continues taking many others?
Dear Conni…Thank you for your comments and questions. I can understand the deep need for answers to every question you asked. Please know, every word I write here comes through from Spirit for clarification, understanding, growth, healing. Even the toughest, most unbelievable experiences have spiritual meaning.
Everything you ask is deeply rooted in your son’s soul journey Conni, as it is for all who come to earth to experience such confusing and difficult paths. The need for your son to come into a body, to eventually live with addiction and all that encompassed, and for you to agree (in Spirit) you be would there for him through it all, gives you a sense of what unconditional love looks like in Spirit…when planning lives together. When a lifetime does not make sense in the human mind, as so much of the addiction problems do, know that past lives enter into this life experience too.
Your son and others in this multi-level spiritual growth journey came to earth to release past lives that would hinder them in future lives. You knew of this, as he did in soul planning this life, but you could not know the biggest missing pieces until you were ready. Conni, this is how Spirit uses a lifetime to clear the path for future lives. It is so important spiritually, ultimately so important for your son, the futures of others, for the greater good…to have healthier lifetimes to come into, free of the burdens they endured in past lives. He knew this (remembered) the moment he left his body.
Through this experience, your life has been opened to greater awareness. Seeking these answers and seeing the bigger picture in ways you never have before benefits so many as well. These are powerful changes in your spiritual growth too.
I hope this helps you, gives you a clearer view of Spirit’s workings within us all… If you have questions, please email me at sara@spiritteaches.org. We want to help you understand… xoxo
Is it possible to remember planning your soul? I recall a memory of planning from when I was four years old. I lost the memory until recently having recalled it after going through therapy. I was four when I was abused and very depressed not wanting to remain on earth. At my lowest point, I recall being lifted up in spirit and shown what I had planned for my life and then given a choice to remain on earth or come back home. I chose to remain. I just feel as if it was a dream but maybe not so much now.
Such an incredible experience Lorrie! Yes, clearly that was a spiritual message, needing to be brought back to you later in life. You are now ready to understand what that “dream” really means. No coincidences…here you are, learning our lives actually are planned. How incredible those words were then, giving you the desire to remain on earth…because you had more to do, to become more aware, and grow into those words you heard as a child. Trust the journey Lorrie…as you did before. Thank you for sharing! xoxo
I try to look at our lives like this, but I can’t fathom that a choice would be made to only live for 4 years. I waited all of my life for a son like my Johnathan and although I am blessed to have had that time with him; it will never seem like enough. He has told others that he chose this and that he is with Jesus now. My father sees him and Johnathan tells him that he is happy. I miss him so much my heart breaks.
I felt this way too Stacy. Not enough time with me…us. This is what took me to the bigger picture, the soul’s plan, as I so needed to understand the spiritual aspect of Scott’s life and death.
As Jonathon revealed…he chose this. Scott tells me he/we planned his transition too…before we were born. These soul plans are the most important aspect of life and death that show us our human love for our children ~ which always exists ~ expanding into a spiritual relationship. It is an explanation…a reality, that allows our human minds to see beyond death to everlasting love. I’m certain Jonathon would tell you he came for his four very important years with you and his family…and that was the time he needed to fulfill his soul plan. I know, so hard to understand…until we trust or learn of the deep spiritual needs we each carry into our lifetime.
Jonathon taught you, he will continue to teach you, and your love for him will push you into greater understanding. Trust this incredible love too… xoxo
Only just reading this as I have been off grid bug food for the last couple of weeks!
Sara I remember in one of my first channellings Charlotte saying that the point was ‘ to bring Love to the very top of your existence ‘.
I Love that you and Scott validate the belief with your own Love which continues to grow as you touch more and more people.
Send our Love to you both xoxo
Dear Lynn… I’m so grateful to have you here…sharing Charlotte’s powerful and knowing words “to bring Love to the very top of your existence.”. Yes. Yes. Yes. As she has been teaching you to see more, and as I have been taught by Scott…this IS the point. I so love having Spirit’s guidance take us right where we need to see more. And as you know my dear friend, the more we live within this spiritual world of our children, the clearer our knowing becomes. It truly is all about love. Thank you Charlotte and your wonderful momma too. xoxo
Thank you Sara,
For me Love is courageous stands out!
I wonder if you can help me with this theme that keeps haunting me. My friends now all have grandchildren and are very busy. Of course we won’t have grandchildren from Jenni and my Son has chosen not to have children and so our lives have become smaller and smaller. When I think of soul planning it makes me feel that this life is a game. Some parts of me cringe at thinking this way and I wondered what my purpose is now. It’s easy to see what my friends purpose is and I find myself thinking about this often and asking my guides about it ……
Such a thought provoking question Rona… I am not a grandmother either, Scott being my only child…and so many questions have swirled around in my mind for years. I watch others, seeing their lives, their journeys so different than mine too. I know now the soul planning I created for this lifetime was to not have grandchildren. Trust me, I did not know this for years following Scott’s death/leaving his body. Trusting in this bigger picture of everything having meaning has brought me this… It was not meant to for me be in this lifetime. Unfair? Unjust? It can feel that way… And then I know life can feel unfair. It is designed to teach us beyond what we want or think we need. The human part of us wants…and we feel that deeply, so deeply. I then must consider the “why” or “why not” aspect. And I always get to…it was meant to be. I signed up for this. I assume I have been a grandmother in past lives, maybe not. Regardless…I am meant to see more, grow, trust, learn, let go of…these and many other aspects of what I wanted in this life…and know I am a spirit who came here to experience life this way. I am, we all are being shown how to do that…
So yes, Rona, love is courageous. Hugs xoxo
Somehow, Sara, your blogs keep disappearing as though I have unsubscribed. I haven’t received one for ages. I take it that means there’s a special reason that this one has come through to me. I think it’s been sent to me to reinforce a reading I had recently which echoes that the loss of Kyle has been a planned sacrifice ‘for the Greater Good’. It has certainly gone some way to raise awareness of the prevention of suicide in Young people. Many cycling events here are spreading the name of PAPYRUS, the UK charity. I know that my awarenss of spirit and understanding around spiritual matters is continuing to grow. Mmmmm…………Can’t always look at the bigger picture though and feel that the pain is worth the gain. It’s all still a work in progress and these precious teachings from spirit/Scott/Kyle/you help to keep me moving forward. Ixx
Dear Irene… I will check to see if you are still on my blog list. For now…know that we have not written for a couple of months. Scott/Spirit is active within me always…as they teach me so I can teach you and those ready for our words. I channel what they bring through me and the timing is always theirs. I feel held back when this happens, but trust the journey always. I think it’s amazing you saw this yesterday as I reposted it. Everything has meaning…as you know…and truly, you were meant to capture the meaning for your journey.
I understand the medium’s message to you. I get from Kyle that his leaving was most assuredly soul planned, but not a “sacrifice” for the greater good” more that “We take one for the team”. Meaning every death/transition is planned for the greater good, to teach, open hearts, see beyond, change us, change laws, bring others together, and on and on. You see that being done, I see that with Scott’s leaving too. It takes time to absorb…so trust Kyle and the journey to show you more. Thank you for sharing my friend. xoxo
Love love love these reminders as it is so easy to get caught up in all the “noise” of everyday life. True meaning and understanding can bring such peace and gratitude. I do know this is all so very true and I see and feel this all the time. Our humanness is fragile and can be so preoccupied with “crap” especially in this time of great pain, loss and suffering all over the world, to which I believe there is also great learning. Thank you for reminding me to stay grounded and follow my beautiful son Nick’s guidance.