The Work of the Soul

The love within.

The pain within.

The courage within.

The meeting of these three, joining together, working as one? What is the answer?

Can you take a breath and follow along with us here?

This is all our soul’s work. Our children completed their’s for this lifetime…no matter how they
left. They are fully aware of it all now.

Our Soul’s Plans ~

The soul plan is demanding. It is the force within the body, the mind, the heart, flowing from the
soul’s knowing journey.

Remember…these very complete plans were created by us in Spirit with everyone we needed
to come into contact with in this lifetime. Good or bad, wonderful or hard. We came into our
bodies to create…experience…learn…grow…share…with one another.

And we do that by listening, reading, observing, regretting, flourishing…pausing too.

Scott/Spirit…who is always the words here, shares this ~

As spiritual beings having human experiences…you are doing your important work here
every day. No matter how challenging, beautiful, easy, hard, painful, joy-filled…and everything in
between…you are living the human and spiritual experiences you soul planned before you were
born.

You knew that in the bigger picture of life and death…whether transitioning or staying here in the
body, these experiences would come to reality.

How often are you surprised with incredible words that come to you from others…out of the
blue? Words you needed…that resonate deeply.

Have you heard words intuitively? Coming into your mind, so clearly or not, that brings you
guidance, direction, facts, a reminder?

Do you ever wonder how all this comes to you…unsolicited? It just came?

You know now…there are no coincidences. None.

It is the soul’s journey. A voice heard from within, the friend who consoles, the unlikely neighbor
who supports the heartbroken. A country who reaches out feed the hurricane victims. All to
enrich the soul, guiding it towards awareness and compassion.

This grief teaches us to see more, to go beyond what we’ve ever known before, to test new
waters, to trust in more.

Is all our grief work also soul planned? New friends, new projects, new thinking…pushing us,
then pushing us further to explore…for the sake of our sanity, peace, getting through each day,
even thriving?

Yes.

Is there no free will in these experiences? Were these the precise experiences we planned
before we were born…to take us into new thinking, awareness, chaos, and out again?

Yes.

What if nothing is random? Does it all have meaning…even the death…the transitioning…to
evolve us and create a greater understanding of our human experiences?
Yes.
When there is tragedy…who rushes in to help, save lives, comfort the family, support the
grieving? Sometimes there is no one…and yet a courage within shows the path to surviving.

This is our soul planned life. The spirit within takes us on the journey. As needed. For balance,
for growth, for the greater good…as we work together in uncommon, unexpected ways.

Would we choose all this given the choice? We all know the answer…

But…honestly, those of us, further along, can see our path by looking back. Who were we? Who
are we now? What do we know we couldn’t before…because it wasn’t time yet?

Can you imagine your child or loved ones seeing you…and enveloping you in Love no matter
what you think? Because they know and see you on this journey, as planned…knowing you will
need to fall at times to get back up…and they are doing the lifting.

I know this. Scott has shown me hundreds of times.

Trust the journey. We are all being carried…with the infusion of our soul work. At the end of the
day…we have accomplished what we came here to do.

Trust Love. Feel the Love. We are Courageous Souls.

Showing 35 comments
  • Cynthia Morton
    Reply

    You are so beautiful Sara. I love your peaceful ways.

    • Sara Ruble
      Reply

      Dear Cynthia…Thank you. This journey has been preparing me to find that peace and share. I love knowing you feel that way. xoxo

  • Tamala
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    This is so so beautiful !All I can say to Scott and you Sara is ..Yes !Yes !Yes! Thanks for spreading the message ..These words resonate with me so deep..So deeply heart felt words ..So much knowing deep within my soul..I am rebuilding a relationship with one of my sisters that completely fell apart when Luke fell ill..Its not easy to do , but I know it is meant for me to do…I see my sister in a different light ..This was meant to happen ..People need to grow in this lifetime and to do so sometimes takes a lot of pain and heartache to do so..How blessed we are to have this life and opportunity to do so..I know this deep within my soul deep within me…I really think my example of my actions after Luke past has amazed a lot of people in my family and around me..Some see me so different..The truth is I am only a expression of Gods love…Higher power what ever resonates with one..Everything is preordane in life yes everything ..Even though it feels like chance no it is not it was planned long ago..We are so blessed to have this opportunity here to learn and grow in human form..Once we truly embrace this life here is never taken for granted like sometimes thru life we often do..Thank you Scott/ Sara ..Your words are like music to my soul..🙏

    • Sara Ruble
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      Being aware you are doing your important soul work Tamala….taking the steps to rebuild, seeing more, seeing less…is truly life changing. Yes! Knowing everything has great meaning, including and beyond the present day happenings, creates the spiritual experiences we need..and ultimately the spiritual life we seek. I love when you feel the “push” from within as you are…your soul is building that awareness within and showing you the path. Not always easy…as you know…as you now feel it is on your soul’s plan.
      Thank you for sharing. Your depth and openness is helping others… Beautiful! xoxo

  • Irene Lewis
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    Thank you Sara and Scott. Always words of understanding , encouragement and hope. I hope Kyle is still spending time with Scott. It sounds like a good place to be. Ixx

    • Sara Ruble
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      Yes Irene. I have no doubt Scott and Kyle are spending time with one another! They brought us together for all the right reasons… Teaching us to trust this journey…with their guidance ~ as undercover agents at times, but still so present in our lives. 😊 xoxo

  • Cathy Feltrup
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    Sara,
    Wow did I need to hear this message today. Grief comes in waves. A wave hit me this morning. Nothing is a coincidence. Reading this now to help me was meant to be. Yes I do believe our Grief work is Soul Planned. I go forward in a different way. On a path of trusting and listening and believing ❤️ Thank you for sharing you and Scott’s words and message. It helps more than you know!! I feel more at peace.
    Love you bunches……. and Scott too!!!

    • Sara Ruble
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      How amazing it was for me this afternoon to see you after you had just read our blog. To feel your hug, look in your eyes…and know Spirit’s words resonated within you was so deeply felt Cathy. Know Al is making sure you know the bigger picture, needing you to feel some peace within, and move into this spiritual relationship with your souls collaborating in new ways. You will know! Love you. xoxo

  • Karen Quoka
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    Scott/Sara…..always a powerful message! And Tamala’s reply here is also……what she wrote resonates deeply within me! My husband and I are different…..yes, people have seen this, and some have commented. No one can believe how “well” we have done since losing Pam. But I also believe the this is definitely a learning experience, a soul’s journey to grow from. Whether it be to help others going through the same thing, or doing something new in life. There is no real “strength” in grief…but there sure is Courage! I am different…..I hope that I continue to grow and I find even more meaning in this life. I miss her terribly and go a few steps backwards sometime even with all my positive thoughts, but I know that even this is part of the journey. I…WE get back up again, and move forward as best we can! My love to all of you here…reading everyone’s comments sometimes helps so much also.

    • Sara Ruble
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      Thank you Karen. These beautiful words are so telling of your grief work turning into spiritual awareness. Yes, “there sure is Courage!” Right here…as I read your comments, all these comments…I know we are a community of devoted parents who Love deeply and channel that Love into our soul’s work. That is where we continue to feel the depth of these relationships and see the Light that guides us. Carry on my friend and know you are not ever traveling this plan alone…none of us are. I love knowing that! xoxo

  • Janice Crowder-Torrez
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    Thank you for sharing your beautiful words Sara. Your message is very healing.

    • Sara Ruble
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      Thank you Janice. We all seek the understanding that will bring us that sometimes illusive healing. As Scott/Spirit brings these important words through…I know they are needed…and it is so powerful to watch the resonating unfold… Be well my friend. xoxo

  • Carolyn tuccio
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    A validating message for sure. Scott’s words thru his beautiful Mom have brought me to the place I am in remembering who my authentic self is. Matthews life was completed and one of the grief gifts he left me was to learn and share with my family and friends what I already knew but had forgotten, and that is to live life fully, let go of fear, and Trust in what is to come for it all will have meaning in this Earthly life. His love of life I am honoring and my love for him will live forever. We are all one with the Divine and if we live courageously , we will experience all we are meant to. God Bless you Sara for sharing Scott’s words and your Love.

    • Sara Ruble
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      There is so much awareness here as you express this deep understanding of your path/soul plan with Matthew, Carolyn. I know it has taken much courage to get to this place. As I have learned…there is peace and healing within as well. We begin to see the road less traveled (understanding the bigger picture) offers much more to us…and as we embrace it, we see and feel with greater clarity and depth. We speak in terms of validation rather than contrast and pain. Thank you for sharing. We are all teachers here…as well as the students. Love, love.

  • Laura Tomei
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    Brilliantly reassured, again dear Sara ….
    You and Scott pave my way, and many other’s who grieve the loss of their child or children, can see you as a beacon of hope light and love 💖

    • Sara Ruble
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      My dear friend Laura, as we work on so many aspects of the journey we are shown more. You know this…your amazing Alex forever in your heart and within your soul…reassuring you as well of the depth of this Love. You too are a beacon…never forget this.
      Love you always!

  • Roselyn Tomasulo
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    It is taking everything I have to live. Yet there is more , more grieves, more love and learning
    Thank you for sharing your path. I am working at mine with my dear son , Nick , with me.
    💔♥️

    • Sara Ruble
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      I understand Roselyn… This human experience tests and loves us, then tests some more…to insure we see and understand these spiritual experiences and lessons. Truly, awareness flows through it all pushing to bring us that much needed balance. Nick is with you always, seen and unseen…as your teacher. Trust his Love…so real and committed! xoxo

  • Char Gilman
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    Thank you Sara/Scott and Howard, I truly needed these reminders and lessons …..Yesterday Howard became an Angel 2 1/2 years ago…..It was a hard day….I had felt him giving me nudges….Come on Mom you have this it’s ok, you know we planned this, it’s going to be ok….But I had some how managed to feel some doubt, along with sadness and anger….So I looked at my phone, and it was dead/black/no life in it at all…..My first thought was that figures, and then I said Howard you didn’t need to go that far(he likes to play with my electronics/elec.) I know you are here with me, I love you so much and I miss you beyond words…..I did some things to my phone thinking I could fix it, it is only a little over a year old…..NOPE so I figured when I was done working I’d go to the store and buy another one, but it finally came back on…….To me it was a reminder that I am still right here Mom…….
    Both your and Scott’s words really resonated deeply with me this time Sara, and they came at a really good time……Because my next thought was I needed to talk to Sara, doubt entered my mind and I don’t want that…..But then when I turned on my laptop, there you were with just what I needed!! I so look forward to each of these lessons……I need more, I want more, and I know more will come…
    Thank you so much Sara/Scott and Howard for all that you give to all of us…..Looking forward to the next lesson….
    Much Love Trust and Peace in our journeys….
    Char

    • Sara Ruble
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      I love when you share Char. Your words are deep and real. They resonate and take me back to my own experiences, emotions, and the doubt too. Oh yes. We count each day and look for clues, proof, and meaning in every occurrence. I know it is the path to seeing more, knowing how Howard works with you (and makes you laugh ~ even at yourself!)…also what you soul planned for your relationship to continue, in the body and spiritually. You see so much…you get “it” even when you don’t think you do. Trust the journey my friend. Trust Love! xoxo

      • Char Gilman
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        When I read this you made me smile BIG!!! I do trust the journey and trust love….And I love it when you remind me!!!!I can’t thank you enough for being a part of my life, and helping me find my way on this journey we are all on!! xoxo

        • Sara Ruble
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          Knowing we soul planned all our relationships is important to understand too Char. No coincidences ever, right? Glad you’re smiling! 😊 xoxo

          • Char Gilman

            Yes, I know we planned all of our relationships (took me awhile to grasp that, because of my ex husband, but I finally got it 🙂 And absolutely NO COINCIDENCES ever, it is no longer a word I use….Thanks for the reminder…..xoxo

  • Sherry
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    Now today was a good day to read your blog. Having a hard time in our marriage since our youngest son passed. But hearing these words makes me realize that perhaps his leaving was meant to be for my growth and perhaps our marriage’s growth
    Our marriage is far from perfect and we are continuing to struggle to stay together, because I believe we were meant to be together. I think that’s what my son wanted, or that was his plan, for us to realize how important we are to each other.
    But, wow, it is so hard
    Thanks ❤️

    • Sara Ruble
      Reply

      Thank you for sharing Sherry. I have learned…when we see our lives and every experience as soul planned it brings questions…as well as greater meaning and answers too. It is hard to live through it all too. Trusting in the bigger picture and ultimately seeing events or relationships (or anything) that comes, then being validated has become a way of life for me…and eases many sleepness nights by knowing the plan is in effect…moving me/us/where we were heading all long. I’m so glad you found us Sherry. We will continue sharing the important details of our soul’s plans. xoxo

  • Paola Leslie
    Reply

    What a beautiful message! Thank you Sara and Scott!

    • Sara Ruble
      Reply

      I love this is resonating with you Paola. Thank you. xoxoxo

  • Karen
    Reply

    Thank you Sara, needed this. Having a rough few days.

    Love to you and Scott
    Xo

    • Sara Ruble
      Reply

      I know those days come Karen… And they often push us to seek relief, answers, or what may give us new perspectives. Our hope is to help you and others to find that relief, greater awareness…something reassuring, what resonates. I’m glad you found us. Love to you. xoxo

  • Cynthia Haller
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    When I was very young, I would randomly say…..” I am NOT coming back”! What are your thoughts about that? To be honest, there isn’t a day lately, that I don’t feel heartbreak with tears, health and memory issues. Physical life is too painful. If I am not hurting, someone I know or for that matter don’t know, is suffering and I can’t do anything about it. Why do we pray for healing, or ‘whatever’ if our lives were planned? Planned lives tells me prayers won’t help.

    • Sara Ruble
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      Life can be so complex Cindy…especially now. Having to trust in that which we cannot always see is a challenge. For me, the soul planning explains why life can be so hard and filled with confusion at times. We are the courageous souls who say “I am going to earth again, to explore through new experiences. There will be great hardships and pain…yet in my spiritual knowing (while in Spirit still) I will be given the tools I need.” When we see ourselves as spiritual beings having human experiences in our bodies…and knowing, even embracing there is a plan, we know there is greater meaning in everything.

      As we pray here on earth, we are asking for that which Spirit/God/Higher Power will bring, heal, show us, change, and more. Prayers can feel very deep and hopeful for us in the body. As we merge into the spiritual knowing, we know the prayers are for our human needs…and that the soul plans will take us where we need to go, as agreed upon in Spirit, experienced, and fulfilled. Knowing pain is a great teacher brings us much we could not have expected in beautiful and loving ways too…so there is balance in all this.
      I know there is a lot to take in Cindy…I hope this brings insights to help you see our human experiences a bit more clearly. Please let us know… xoxo

  • Mabel
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    Thanks, Sara and Scott!

    I couldn’t have said it better. Your words resonate deeply within me. The messages have come to me from Leo and in many forms.

    Even the regrets are part of this soul planned journey!

    With love ❤️
    Mabel

    • Sara Ruble
      Reply

      Yes, Mabel, all of it. These soul plans are exquisitely planned for every human experience we have…to teach, grow, and evolve us in the body. Grasping this meaning and moving into greater spiritual awareness brings deeper understanding and even peace of mind. It is all as it was meant to be… I know it takes time, questioning, effort and more to get our hearts and minds to this place…and having Leo collaborating with you, validating, is beautiful! xoxo

  • Christine Moncheck
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    Love these divinely timed messages! So validating! Love. Pain. Courage! Thank you! Xoxo

    • Sara Ruble
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      They are so validating Christine…and continue to be for me too. We came here to learn, evolve, and share…as we do! xoxo

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